What is success?

Society tells us that a quality of life is measured by accomplishments.  Degrees, houses, friend circles and paychecks. 

Independence and success equal a “happy life.”

When skills don’t match up with age, where do we go from there?

We never stop trying. 

We meet them where they are at instead of where they are “supposed” to be. 

We teach.

We laugh.

We grow.

We guide. 

We advocate. 

Everyone deserves dignity, acceptance and a voice that is heard. 

Different isn’t a bad word.  

Disability isn’t a bad word. 

Kindness always wins. 

As we enter in to a new school year, I’m going to make a conscious effort to remember these words.  

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Author: Rachel Alves

Hi there! I am a special needs mom to a beautiful, sweet girl. Audrey has a mutation on her CASK Gene. This is a rare genetic disorder that effects her globally. It has caused a seizure disorder as well as gross motor, fine motor and speech delays. A Microcephaly diagnosis comes along with it as well. Our last 8 years have been filled with therapy, learning about our daughter's disorder and also learning to cope while finding joy. Thank you for taking the time to read about our journey. For more information on the CASK Gene, please visit my Instagram @alvesmomkickingCASK.

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